Finding My Soulmate

Ever tell yourself or have a friend say? All of the good ones are taken. Why can’t I be attracted to the good ones? The good ones just are not attracted to me. Those are some of the limiting beliefs that for years crippled me from attracting my soul mate. Today I am so blessed to have found…

Decision Muscle Memory

As my wife is cooking dinner, my family and I are sitting at the kitchen table reading Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins. We begin a discussion on this quote, “making a true decision means committing to achieving a result, and then cutting yourself off from any other possibility.” As we talked about it, I recalled my decision to…

Am I going to prison?

Today, while walking the dog, I found myself imagining a man coming out of his house rudely saying something to me about the dog peeing in his yard. In response, I imagined many different scenarios of how I would react to him. Most of those scenarios ended with me kicking his ass. As I was walking the dog back…

#My Suicide and Christmas

Eight years ago I found myself homeless after making several consecutive stupid decisions. I had been fired from my job for attendance and couldn’t find a steady job. My partner didn’t want to work any more hours than she was already working at her part-time job. All I could find was working part-time as a waiter at a Mexican restaurant….

Having problems being THANKFUL this holiday season?

What can we learn from Thanksgiving? Recently, for 21 days in a row, I asked my employees to write down 3 things that they were thankful for. It was amazing to me how some of them embraced the idea of changing their thought patterns and others thought it was a completely ridiculous thing to do. I heard…

#livingahashtag Social Media is my best friend!

Whenever I am lonely I just go to my Facebook page, Snapchat, Twitter, or Instagram. I browse through my friend’s posts and blogs filling my day up with all kinds of interesting topics. Sometimes, for entertainment, I just look at stupid stuff (comedy, abstract thoughts, or what is trending). This kind of fills my day…

Perception

The Bible says: “ask and you shall receive; seek and you shall find, and knock and it will be open to you” (Matt. 7:7). For the last few years of my life, I have found myself asking questions about how I can better myself and bring more abundance to my life. I have been seeking…